Category Archives: Women

Today is white ribbon day.

Around 2.30 pm on Stuff home page.

Govt hired PI to watch rugby on TV
A Government ministry hired a private detective to watch World Cup rugby final matches on television to see if advertising was run in the programme, a court has heard.

‘Hideous’ abuse exposed as child killer jailed
The mother of a murdered South Auckland infant wailed as the “hideousness” of their baby’s killer was exposed at the High Court in Auckland this morning.
Audio Presentation. Mother’s anguish after daughter killed
Article. White Ribbon – in defiance of violence

Teen lay on the road after death drive
A teenage driver tried to get himself run over as a woman lay dying under the van that he flipped on the Pahiatua Track, a court heard.

Bondage dungeon owner sentenced
A Christchurch man who cut scar patterns into teenage girls in a purpose-built suburban bondage dungeon has been sentenced to nine months home detention.

Editors’ Picks
- Most Viewed
- Disgraced swimmer pleads guilty to bashing
- Election of Obama leads to more hate crimes
- Violent fighting outside High Court
- Arrest over Rotorua road rage shooting
- Blackadder returns for Christmas special
- Front-facing buggies may stunt babies’ brains
- Kiwi seeks compo over alleged abuse by Aussie priest

Blackadder seems to be the only light relief, apart from the rugby story. It is patently obvious why we so desperately need White Ribbon Day and Its not OK campaigns. Today is white ribbon day.

Leave a Comment

Filed under Media, Women

Disability in the Pacific

It is always a privilege to be able to hear disabled people share their stories. Last week I heard young disabled Samoan women take, for some of them, their first steps towards empowerment. It was sometimes sad and always moving but we managed to have a few laughs together as well.

As I said in my last blog the stories are similar the world over, I can identify with the pain and marginalisation expressed in each personal story. I also said in my last blog the differences are usually local and cultural angles, and of degree.

These young women told of being cared for by their families, but not being allowed out on their own, and being denied opportunities, such as going to school or having a job and being able to contribute to their families in the ways they wanted. Some cried as they told of painful instances of being cruelly treated by others in their communities.

Happily not all stories were sad. One young woman said she was not ashamed of being disabled, and that she had been able to achieve success in her life, and we celebrated that with her.

They all had dreams, the same dreams you would expect many young women to have. They wanted to be able to work, to party, to have boyfriends and ultimately have a family of their own. One expressed a longing to go to school.
I have just returned from Samoa, where I attended two disability conferences, the first a women’s forum. Never having visited before, I found Samoa to be laid back, hot and very clean and tidy. I don’t think I saw a scrap of rubbish anywhere, and the beautiful gardens were lush and colourful. Coming in from the airport when I got home I thought Wellington looked messy by comparison.

One meeting was held in one of the beautiful open fales, which allowed the air to circulate and a fairly comfortable temperature, while the other was held in a rather inadequately air-conditioned room.

Physical access in Samoa is minimal, as there are few footpaths and most buildings especially the churches I saw had lots of steps. There is still much to do also in terms of education, and support services. Sadly disabled people seem to be the last in line when it comes to inclusion in mainstream development aid, but I am pleased to see that NZAID has a good reputation and is funding small practical grassroots projects to help disabled people’s organisations.

Despite the, heat, the long hours of work, the usual tummy troubles, and almost being caught up in a near riot between warring schools, (over rugby) it was a great trip. We were there to help build capacity in Pacific disability organisations. We met some stunning people, and I hope we were of use to them.

Leave a Comment

Filed under Disability Issues, Disability Rights, Travel, Women

Honour Disabled Women on International Women’s Day

March 8th is International Women’s Day.

It was originally International Working Women’s Day, first celebrated in 1909, but has been widened to celebrate many of women’s political, social and economic achievements over the years.

In NZ it usually results in rather smug lists of significant dates and women at the top, PMs, Governors-General, the occasional CEO, Chief Justice and the like. Sometimes we see groundbreaking women scientists or educators mentioned. Then the world goes on its merry way, conveniently forgetting that equal pay for work of equal value has yet to be achieved, there are still few directors on boards, senior managers in tertiary institutions and so on and women are still the main targets of high levels of domestic violence.

Disabled women are rarely if ever mentioned. They are still in workshops being paid third world rates, struggling to acquire a good education, to bring up their children, forge a career and make ends meet. They are even more subject to domestic and related violence

I am really tired of feeling embarrassed attending international gatherings where projects to improve the lot of disabled women are underway in poorer countries than NZ. The plight of disabled women internationally has been recognised in the Disability Rights Convention. Yet here our issues are subsumed by general disability or general women’s issues. I guess we will have to start the ball rolling ourselves, as women have always done.

Before I am accused of being a whinger and moaner let me bring disabled women into the list of those we celebrate on International Women’s Day.

Who are our heroines, both living and dead? There are many and these are just a few I can think of and in no particular order. They include: Anne Hawker, next World President of Rehabilitation International,
The late Dame Anne Ballin, disability pioneer
Vi Hepburn, marine engineer,
Victoria Manning, Deaf human rights activist
Trish Harris, poet
Wendi Wicks, pest about town,
Alexia Pickering, accessibility pioneer,
Ruth Jones, disability strategist,
Karen Butterworth, poet
Mary O’Hagan, mental health consumer activist and former Commissioner,
Judy Small, blind activist and public servant,
Alison Riseborough, accessible transport activist and public servant,
Linda Beck, researcher, and lawyer
Verona Moynihan, tireless community worker,
Val Smith, former social welfare commissioner and then some, Marion Wellington, tireless community worker
Josie Khoury, Video presenter,
Minnie Baragwanath, media star and then some
The late June Opie, author and disability pioneer
Pam Cook, former National Education Advocate and mentor
Marilyn Baikie, disability activist and past DPA president
Grace Wheeler, blind activist and mentor
Vicki Terrel, disability activist within the churches
Bronwyn Hayward, dancer

and all the others, too many to name, all of you, disabled women, celebrate, this is your day too!

1 Comment

Filed under Disability Rights, Women